And it was after months of silence that I realised we make better strangers than we ever did anything else.
I think that the only time things are truly over is when there is absolutely no hope from either one of the people involved, you know? Hope is such a beautiful thing. And I’ve only realized just how important hope is, very recently. I think that you’ll know it’s truly over when it no longer seems possible to take any more steps forward. When you can see yourself living a life without that person, and that doesn’t tear you apart.. That’s when you know it’s truly over. When being without them is the only option, and nothing that could be said or done can or will ever change that.
As for things being the way they used to be.. It’s not about that. Things will always change. And as much as most people hate change, change is good. It allows you to separate what you want and what you don’t. Keep all the good and let all the bad go. Nothing will ever stay exactly the way it was before.. Else we’d never grow or progress. One thing I can tell you for sure though is that when it comes to love.. Anything is possible.
Don’t trust charming. Why? Because the boy who can talk all the right words knows it too well. Things like boys and love aren’t meant to be practiced like that, it should be a bit awkward- it should be raw.